Lesley, what’s the bravest thing you’ve ever done?
The bravest thing I’ve ever done is become a full-time sex healer. I’ve always been fascinated by the concept of a ‘sacred prostitute’, but got the impression that this was something belonging to a bygone era. Now, I live that reality!
My clients get to greatly expand their sexual repertoire with me. They get to see first-hand how to bring a woman to orgasm in a multitude of ways, without necessarily having to rely on vaginal penetration or direct clitoral stimulation. They also experience ‘relaxed arousal’, which many men are not used to. Most men focus on climaxing as soon as they become aroused. I help my clients to fully enjoy the journey and let go of excessively focusing on climax. In turn, I’ve learned that I can enjoy being with any man, regardless of their race, size, shape or age. And the reason for that is because I’m so comfortable in my own skin and so confident in my sexuality.
Doing this work has also enhanced the quality of my mothering. I’m so relaxed and patient with my two teenage sons. I’m also able to speak candidly with friends and family about sexuality and its effects on all areas of their lives. This has not been an easy journey for me, considering the immense social stigma surrounding my work. But I see myself as an incredibly free and empowered woman. I firmly and passionately believe that sexual healing is the number 1 need on this planet at this time. And I’m honored to fulfill my role in that process.
~ Lesley Love
Sex Healer (www.MsLesleyLove.com)
Toronto, ON, Canada